I guess the easiest way to perhaps even attempt to avoid a stressful relationship, is to be selective. Finding someone hot, sexy and rich is cute and all…but really? Cute can turn un-cute rather quickly when you have to go deeper than someone’s looks or their pockets/purse.
Date someone with good core values
These people usually care about how they treat people, and will usually only treat others the way they want to be treated. They are usually very solid people and handle situations in the right way. They generally make for happy relationships, because they are trustworthy and honorable…and if they’re sexy, witty and make you laugh…you’ve just struck gold!
A Peaceful Person
Peaceful people usually seem to be very level headed. They see the calm in an issue and usually gravitate towards that. These are the types of people you may feel at ease around. Less tension, because you know whatever the disagreement, it can be resolved and without the headaches you could get elsewhere…and again, if they’re sexy and make you laugh….definite keeper.
A person who would never do anything to hurt you or let harm come to you. This person only wants to see you stress free and smiling. They would see hurt come to themselves, before letting any harm come to you. The good thing about this person is that they will defend you…your body, heart, reputation. You would be literally safe in their arms. One of the biggest turn on’s is knowing that your man will give his all and all to take care of you. Now that is my kind of hero!
This person is true blue. Never a question as to who’s side this person is on. They could be a in sea of temptation, and you would never bat an eye or have a second thought as to where his loyalty lies. There’s nothing like having that kind of peace of mind in a relationship. You think loyalty is everything in some secret society, try pledging your loyalty to someone who has given you their heart…plus a loyal person is da hotness.
The Honest Person
Dating or being married to someone and you can’t believe a word that leaves their lips is a horrible way to live. A man who is honest…now THAT is an aphrodisiac in and of itself. Doesn’t that just turn you on? Think about it. I shouldn’t have to get so excited over this, but believe it or not, sometimes it’s such a rarity to have someone simply look you in the face and tell you the truth. And yes, that goes for men AND women too! But show me an honest man…and I’ll show you a man who has women simply wishing he were whispering sweet truths in their ears. Oh yeah!
You see you can create a lot of your own happiness just by choosing to be with someone who is morally a good and a decent person. Me on the other hand, I just decide based upon which Real Housewife they like…just joking…maybe. 😉